in reference to Aiz's blog
umm,if u guys are trying to login to aiz's blog, its not possible as she has changed her blogging address due to some "unavoidable" issues.hhehehe!
somehow rather, its 2.17 am..i know. im just taking over the shift of the "burung hantu"(owl)
hee! will be having some AMP ceremony at Pasir Ris later(which is approx 7 hrs from now) and i've got to be there at 8 or 7 am?i dont know. mum will be waking me up. "kalau tak bangun,mak simbah kau dgn air" which directly means that "if u didnt wake up,im going to splash water at u" alamak! im like giving malay-english course.hehe!
supposed to be going to Sentosa on Sat. but sentosa and me? no link,no link. im not the "sentosa girl" hehe.sorry awak...
was chatting with Aiz on msn earlier on about some emotional issue involving uncertainties in life and etc. i find it interesting and thats why im bringing it to the public attention now.
ATTENTION.is that the word that i mentioned earlier on? ya, and thats what i'm going to debate about. (ceh,debah!)
some of us might not realise but i personally think, attention or obtaining attention is a form of a human need in life. ppl might not be aware due to its intangibility but it sure exist everywhere. be it at ur workplace, school,house,friends or even ur life partners itself.
its even weirder how ppl can go all out to the extent of getting attention. they do have their own means.
i am not siding anyone but im just stating my own point of view. well. i do confess i do need attention. but im rather selective in my choices. i am not the loud or the vocal type in class who would go answering every qns asked by tutor.im obviously not the one trying to bootlick my lecturers and tutors. but i do know of several ppl who did that. but yet,look at where they are now. i wont give names but u know urself. =)
ppl might think that getting attention helps u in life in terms of popularity and favouritism. but no,thats a wrong perception. if ure getting the right attention for something that u
usually do and u dont overdo it and u're being
just urself,i called that a healthy attention.
this matter is not a prominent one in sec and pri schools but its getting much more obvious when u're in JCs and Polys where all ur actions and behaviours are monitored by ppl. im one of the "monitorer". hee! just to share my experience in Year 1 poly...
i do know of someone who's kinda of desperate to get attention until it seems so obvious. answers every lect's qns,laughs aloud to dumb lame jokes, being extra friendly to classmates and even to "act" clever during tutorials. clever? no,bimbo.i used to get all worked up as i feel that my lecturers are spending more time attending to her than concentrating on all of us. i would reach home and bragged about this with my sis. i still remembered what she said.
"just give the person some time.this is the person's peak period. sooner or later,you will realise that all her efforts in attracting attention from lecturers will be all wasted." i didnt take my sister's word seriously but soon enough,it was proven. im not happy or satisfied but rather pitiful. instead of ppl knowing u for being the positives, ppl are talking about all the otherwise.
why am i relating all this as one of my lovely,closest baybeh,Aiz,is rather feeling quite down and uncertains as she is feeling what i used to feel previously.
but after much consoling,i do hope it ease and lighten her thoughts slightly. like what i've told her, the essential things is that u are sincere in everything that u do. and how u achieve that? it is to be just yourself. dont try to act cute when ure not one. example only ah! heee!
(yang pentingnya,nawaitu dan niat kita mesti bersih dan ikhlas.insyallah,kita akan dapat merasa perhatian dari setiap individu) when you're being urself, ure being Natural.and thus u'll feel much more "free" and no restrictions to whatever you want to do.
oh my,am i giving a speech? i dont know.but like fun,like that. heee!
i always assures myself this.. eventhough nobody likes me or eventhough nobody gives me any attention,i m aware that im given much love and attention. from God of course.. insyallah dan alhamdulilah.
take care all! =))
im soo worried about my bulgy tummy. but do u think im bothered? Dont Bother!! heee!
i loveee my readers. pls give me your point of views k! =)
do i need to explain anything about her?
babe,u're not forgotten...
and kental seri! u lagi tak di forgotten. hhehehe!
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